Nasty, but needs to be questioned

lyrics (abridged version)
http://www.moron.nl/lyrics/lil-wayne/lollipop-lyrics.html
I Said he's so sweet
Make her wanna lick the rapper
So I letta lick the rapper
She she she lick me like a lollipop
She she lick me like a lollipop

[Chorus:] Shawty wanna thug (thug thug)
bottles in the club (club club)
shawty wanna hump and
ooo i like to touch ya lovely lady lumps

[Verse 1:Lil Wayne]
Okay, lil mama had a swag
like mine even wear her hair
down her back like mine
i make her feel right when
its wrong like lyin
Man, she ain never had a love like mine
but man i aint never seen a ass like hers
that pussy in my mouth
had me at a loss fo words
i told her to back it up like erp erp and
make that ass jump like shczerp shczerp
and thats when
she she she lick me like a lollipop( oh yeah i like that ) s
he she lick me like a lollipop ( oh yeah i like that )

[Verse 2:]
Shawty said the nigga that she with aint shit
Shawty said the nigga that she with aint this
Shawty said the nigga that she with cant hit
But shawty ima hit it(hit it) like i cant miss
And i cant do this and i dont do that shawty
needa a refund needa bring that nigga back
Just like a refund i tell her bring that ass back
and she bring that ass back (because i like that)

[Chorus:] Shawty wanna thug (thug thug)
bottles in the club (club club)
shawty wanna hump and
ooo i like to touch ya lovely lady lumps
Shawty call me so i can make it juicy fo ya
Call ca call me so so i can get it juicy fo ya
Call ca ca call me so so i can make it juicy fo ya
Ca Call me so so so i can get it juicy fo ya
Ca Call me so i can make it juicy fo ya

I get her on top she drop it like it hot
and when im at the bottom she Hilary Rodham
then we in the bed givin gettin head ( givin gettin head givin gettin head )
said mmmm i like that said
mmmm i like that i said mmmm i like that
yea i like that mmm mmmmm
Call me so i can come and do it fo ya
Call me so i can come and prove it fo ya
Call me so i can make it juicy fo ya
Call me so i can get it juicy fo ya
Shawty wanna li li li li lick me like a lollipop
She she lick me like a lollipop (lollipop)
Said he's so sweet
Make her wanna lick the rapper
So i let her lick the rapper

So even posting these lyrics on my page is making me sick to my stomach. I really don't even know where to begin. I hate this song. I think its demeaning to women. I think it has absolutely no message except one of trashy selfishness and it bothers me even more that it has become a hit. But, honestly, I'm not even gonna focus on the gender issue.
The biggest question I have is if this music video is a picture of what the black community wants to promote as the black man: a guy with a limo-van filled with half naked women all wanting to give him oral sex? Its weird, but I feel like if a white man were to put out this same video, he would be looked more at like a disgrace. I don't think he would be gettin repped as much. However, when a black man puts forth this image, he is mad popular and he gets mad money. Why? Do black people have a certain unspoken leniency? What is it more approved of of black music artist to talk about such themes in such language and its not looked down upon by the majority of society, but instead acknowledged as a man doing big things?
Maybe I'm just not seeing something, but there seems to be a double standard. In this case. seemingly to the benefit of black males, but I think to the detriment of black culture as a whole.